It’s increasingly common for the new generation to get married. Five years ago, the trend was to get married at a later age. Now the trend is the opposite. Why did I say it’s a trend? Because some people get inspired seeing their friends and family getting married and then they start to think it’s not a bad idea to follow.

There is nothing wrong in getting married. Marriage is not just to show how much you love a person, taking responsibility, a tool to get money or to mark your territory. It’s a promise that you will share the rest of your life with the other person in whatever condition it may come and be each others support.

What bugs me is some people don’t get married until the girl is pregnant. I’m not even saying if it’s right or wrong cuz everybody has different view according to one’s society moral. But the fact that they didn’t consider getting married before the baby comes is bothering me. Does that mean they weren’t gonna be married at all if they never had kids? Does that mean they don’t love each other enough to give that promise? Does that mean they are forced to take responsibility in a short amount of time and hence “weak” marriage?

It just amaze me when the divorce rate is so high, some people are still getting married without seriously thinking it through or so it seems.